Money always comes first. Without money you cannot acquire the things you want or create the lifestyle you want. Only with an abundance of money can you provide adequately for you and your family, ensuring their health, well-being and development. Only with an abundance of money can you travel the world, surround yourself with nice things and develop your intellect and knowledge. You want to have money so you can eat, drink and be merry when it is time to do these things.
The key is to see yourself as a Money Magnet, because money itself is a powerful magnetic energy and you are attracting all that you want using the signal your thoughts and energy are putting out.
Be clear about how much money you want. Be specific. Do not say "I want to be rich", try saying "I am so happy and grateful now that I am earning $100,000 per year". Notice I said I am so happy and grateful NOW that. It is important that you speak, act and think like you already have the money. You need to use your free time visualizing yourself spending that money in whatever way you want. What would you buy your friends and family with that money? What good could you provide to others with that money? Think about how it FEELS. It will feel great! Keep that feeling with you all the time. Keep those images in your head all the time. Your thoughts create things- so make them good!